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The more you want something, the more you will experience the opportunities to choose it…

  • Writer: The Wonders Team
    The Wonders Team
  • 7 days ago
  • 7 min read

Updated: 7 days ago

whether you like it or not.


Boy with backpack stands on a beach, gazing at glowing geometric circles in stormy blue clouds over the ocean.
Why does shit keep happening in my life?

Let me explain.


When you realllllly want something - not just a little, but very intensely, where it feels like if you don’t go for it, you will simply spontaneously combust, or it will so devastate you that you wouldn’t know how to carry on without it - it changes the actual frequency around you.


Imagine life as one big force field. And the physical is just the exterior shell of that. Everything that exists within you - your thoughts, your desires, your dreams, your fears, your choices, etc., etc., - are actually energetic forces that are creating the force field. And your force field flows into and is an integral part of the larger, universal force field that encompasses all forces and is the same energy that allows your own force field to exist.


Still with us?


Hopefully you are. It’s about to (hopefully) make sense, we promise.


So there you are, your force field melding and rippling out with all other force fields around you, creating one, large, all-encompassing force field called humanity that is contained on this planet.


And you’ve realized that inside of yourself, is this intense desire to be free. You don’t know exactly what that means, you don’t know what is fully required and you certainly don’t know how to get there. All you know is that there is an intense desire inside of you to be free.


So now what?


Well, that desire is creating a literal energy that is moving outwards. Just because you’re not aware of it and just because you can’t “see” it physically manifesting in your life, your job, your relationships, etc, doesn’t mean that there is not a literal force that is moving from and to you.


If you were aware of it, you could start observing not just that it exists inside of you, but that it is being echoed all around you. Someone says something that reminds you of how much you want to be freer. Something happens that reminds you that your choices are leading you to feel like you are less and less free, rather than feeling more and more free. Or maybe an opportunity comes along for you to stretch yourself to be more free, and you refuse it because it’s not convenient to everything else in your life.


No harm, no foul, right?


No big deal.


Except that it is.


Have you ever tried to stop a waterfall? No, right? That would be stupid. A waterfall is too fast, too strong and too powerful to be stopped. So why would you ever try to stop it?


Well, imagine the energy of your desires like a waterfall of energy moving out of you.


And this desire to be free, although you consistently try to tell yourself it’s no big deal, is actually the equivalent to a Niagara Falls of energy flowing out of you, every moment of every day.


But you don’t see it, so you don’t really care. And you keep living your life.


The problem? Shit keeps happening. Every time you think you’re making progress, something comes along and knocks you back down. Every time you think life is going well, something happens that causes distress and turmoil. And it happens again, and again, and again and again. Until you realize that it’s not stopping.


The solution? First, start by being brutally honest with yourself. Stop bullshitting yourself about how much or how little you want something. Get real. You may be terrified of being free but if you don’t ever admit how much you want to be free, you’re basically waiting for the universe to do it for you.


And trust us, you won’t like its delivery method.


The universe’s delivery method is to graciously offer you a crisis.


At first they’ll probably be small - a minor health issue you need to deal with, a financial situation you need to resolve or a problem with a friend or loved one that stresses you out but ultimately you can work through.


But that’s “Phase 1” of the level of crises that are heading your way. And if you just push through them and not use them as opportunities for self-reflection or change, the universe will graciously upgrade you to :“Phase 2.”


“Phase 2” crises are bigger and a lot more intense than the first phase. Now, the issues are not simple, quick fixes that allow you to return to your regular, daily life as easily. Maybe it’s a divorce or the death of a loved one that requires more time and energy to process, adapt to and recalibrate yourself afterwards. Maybe you lose your job or your business and you have to start from square one somewhere else or doing something else. Maybe your health takes a steep turn downwards because you’ve dismissed all of the little warning signs and symptoms that have been coming up lately. And now you’re out of commission until you can recover, which  adds to the stress of everything else in your life.


But still, you put your head down, you power through the crisis and, again, you return to your normal, everyday life.


'Whew,' you think to yourself, 'that was hard but I made it. Thank God. Now I can keep moving on with my life.'


Unfortunately, you didn’t realize that whatever criss you just went through was designed to assist you in changing. All you did was address the issue but you did not really change. Even if you got a different job, a new relationship or resolved a health issue, you yourself did not really change.


You still think the same way, your view on life is basically the same, your relationship to your mind has not changed, and most importantly, your willingness to make different choices has not been expanded.


Uh-oh, now, without ever realizing it, you’ve promoted yourself to “Phase 3” of universal crises.


And trust us, you don’t ever want to get to “Phase 3.”


Why? Because not everyone survives it. And if they do, they often come out of it with extensive damage.


View Exhibit A - our friendly neighborhood channeler and life coach Réné Gaudette.


Most people think that Réné’s “Phase 3” crisis was the accident he had when he was snowmobiling and he got hit by a pick-up truck. You would think that dying twice on the operating table and breaking every bone in your body on the left side and losing a spleen would quality as a “Phase 3” crisis.


But it was actually just the beginning. Because the thing about “Phase 3” is that it’s not just one crisis coming towards you. It’s every crisis you can imagine coming towards you… at the same time.


Réné also had a business that he had to work relentlessly to keep afloat while trying to physically recover from his accident. And that had to be closed down while finalizing a divorce. Then it was the nervous breakdown he had coming out of another distressing relationship. Not to mention the level of extreme anxiety, depression and stress in trying to keep all of this together.


So, to sum up, we don’t recommend you want to go for “Phase 3.”


Why did all of these crises start happening in Réné’s life? Well it’s terrifyingly simple - he wanted to be free. Not just to channel, or to help people, or to find loving relationships or have a great life. It was to truly, experience freedom. Little did he know the cost of setting this desire aside.


And he knew he wanted this. He knew from the time he was born he wanted it. But he got busy. He got busy working, getting married, having kids, taking care of the house, being a provider, being a giving person to everyone around him. Like we said, he was busy.


No one has time to “be free.” Whatever that even means.


But, energy does not work the way our minds would like to think it does. It does not exist based on our schedules and our ideas and our expectations of life and what we think we’re going to get out of life.


Energy just exists.


As much as you might not think you have desires and dreams and yearning, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist anyway.


So, that leaves you with one basic choice - do you keep living trying to blindfold yourself to what’s going on inside of you, and therefore leave it to the universe to -not so graciously -) rip the blindfold off for you? Or do you start doing it yourself so that you can start putting together the clues that are showing you what’s coming towards you?


If you listen to the “Phase 1” level signs and warnings, you may never have to get to “Phase 2” or “Phase 3.” Because the more you choose, the less you resist the larger universal force field. The less you resist the larger universal force field, the more your own force field aligns with and allows all other force fields to co-exist with yours. Like a happy, free-flowing waterfall.


Resistance is futile. You are the force. You are the storm that is coming towards you. Learn to listen, observe and choose.


So literally may the force be with you. Because otherwise, it will be against you. And nobody wants that.

P.S. This is the reason why Réné has dedicated his life to helping others. So that nobody has to go through “Phase 3” that way he did... OR WORSE.


Yours truly, The Wonders Team




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The Wonders are a collective consciousness channeled by deep trance channeler Réné Gaudette.  Réné channels The Wonders in a deep trance state. He has recorded every session by The Wonders and amassed an entire audio library of their material. You can listen to all of the recordings in The Wonders Library.  You can schedule a session with The Wonders and attend all events by The Wonders through The Wonders Hub. 

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